Further update as of 3rd August 2016
I have again chatted with a BT Engineer this morning in the village connecting a copper line for someone near the school. He confirmed as did all the other engineers I have spoken to that fibre is in the village and ready and that CAB 4 does not need anything doing to it as its FTTP we are receiving not FTTC.
He said to phone adn not go through the sites and so I have contacted the FTTP Team this morning and they are sending a engineer to look into it in the next five days. If I don't hear from them I am to call back on Thursday 11th. The FTTP team did say its installed and they are looking into to it why we unable to order it at this time.
Don't rely on the openreach or superfast cymru sites for the rollout status. Apparently the only one BT go off is this one: https://www.dslchecker.bt.com/